Choosing Your Perfect First Dance Song: A Guide by Ryan Grant
As a professional singer, saxophonist, and DJ with years of experience performing at weddings across the UK, I’ve seen how the right first dance song can elevate your special day. Whether it’s an intimate ceremony or a grand celebration, the first dance is a moment to remember for a lifetime. It’s not just about the music – it’s about choosing a song that reflects your love, your relationship, and the emotions you want to share with your guests.
Having performed countless first dances, I know how important it is to select a track that speaks to both of you. After all, it’s the beginning of your new journey as a married couple, and it should be a moment that feels truly yours.
1. Think About What Feels Right For You Both
The first step in choosing your song is thinking about what resonates with both of you as a couple. Your first dance isn’t about choosing something trendy or popular—it’s about picking a song that feels personal and significant.
Does the song have a special memory for you? Maybe it’s the first song you danced to together, or one that reminds you of a memorable moment during your relationship. I’ve had couples select songs based on shared experiences, and it always makes the moment even more powerful.
2. Consider Your Style and Theme
Are you looking for something classic and timeless, or do you prefer a more modern or unique vibe? Your wedding theme and the overall atmosphere you want to create can help guide your song selection. For example, if you’re going for a vintage, elegant feel, you might opt for a classic like “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Elvis Presley. On the other hand, if you want something with a modern, upbeat twist, “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You” by Frankie Valli might be the one.
Other ideas for timeless first dances include:
- “At Last” by Etta James – For couples looking for a slow, soulful moment full of emotion.
- “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran – A popular modern choice, with romantic lyrics perfect for a first dance.
- “Make You Feel My Love” by Adele – A powerful ballad, ideal for couples who want to showcase their deep affection.
3. Work With Your Wedding Day Timeline
When considering your first dance song, think about the flow of your wedding day. If you’re having a more formal or traditional wedding, a slower ballad might be the way to go. If you want to get the party started with some fun energy, an upbeat song could get the crowd moving right after your first dance.
As a performer, I offer a range of packages that cater to your needs, whether you want a calm and intimate performance during the daytime or an energetic evening set to keep the party going. Some couples opt for a more playful song like “You Make My Dreams” by Hall & Oates, while others go for a timeless classic like “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra.
4. Consider the Musical Arrangement
One of the unique aspects of my services is the ability to offer you both live music and DJ sets. As a saxophonist and singer, I can create the perfect live experience for your first dance, whether it’s a romantic ballad played on the saxophone or a soulful rendition of your favorite tune. Some couples choose to have me perform a unique arrangement of their favorite song, adding a personal touch that sets their wedding apart.
If you’re unsure about the arrangement of the song, I’m happy to work with you to make sure it’s just right. Together, we’ll find the perfect balance between emotion and rhythm, ensuring that your first dance feels as magical as you’ve imagined it.
5. Get Inspired by Your Favorite Songs
Sometimes the hardest part of picking a first dance song is narrowing it down. There are so many beautiful songs out there, and it can feel overwhelming. Don’t be afraid to draw inspiration from your favorite music genres, movies, or artists.
For example:
- “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri – A beautiful ballad popular with couples seeking something modern yet timeless.
- “Stand by Me” by Ben E. King – A classic tune that speaks to the strength and support of a loving relationship.
- “All of Me” by John Legend – A contemporary favorite that speaks to unconditional love and acceptance.
Sometimes, a more unconventional choice can also be a great fit. Consider songs that tell your love story in a unique way, like “You’ve Got the Love” by Florence + The Machine or “Home” by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros.
6. Don’t Forget the Lyrics
The lyrics of your first dance song are just as important as the melody. Think about the message behind the song and whether it aligns with the love story you want to tell. I’ve had couples pick songs that speak to their journey together, from overcoming obstacles to celebrating the joy of being with their perfect match.
7. Personal Touches Matter
When I perform at weddings, I always aim to bring a personal touch to every service. Whether it’s a specific song request, a surprise dedication, or just creating the perfect vibe for your reception, I love seeing the joy a well-chosen first dance song can bring to couples and their guests. Remember, your wedding day is about celebrating your unique connection, so make sure your first dance reflects that.
Conclusion
Choosing your first dance song is a personal and meaningful decision. It’s a moment that’s all about you, so take your time and pick something that feels right. Whether you’re drawn to classic ballads, modern love songs, or something a little more unique, the key is to select a song that speaks to your hearts.
If you need any help or suggestions, I’d be honored to assist you in finding that perfect first dance song. After all, it’s my job to make sure that every wedding performance I do – from the first dance to the last song of the night – is nothing short of magical.
With the right song, your first dance will be a moment you’ll cherish forever.
